Lately I’ve been having a hard time completely forming a decent blog.
I halfway write one then its goes nowhere so I delete it.
I’ve been thinking a lot about different kinds of relationships, marriage included && the role that sex plays in those relationships. I’ve also been thinking a lot about the term “soul mate”, what it means and if it’s even possible.
More importantly, these thoughts have forced me to ask myself if I can picture myself with one person for the rest of my life.
One person for the rest of my life? Wow.
Do you believe in having a soul mate? If you do is the person you’re currently dating your soul mate?
If not why are you dating them? That’s what dating is about isn’t it? Sorting through all the Mr./Mrs. Wrong’s to get to Mr./Mrs. Right?
Or is dating more about experience? Is it about finding the qualities you like in another person? Or is it really about you and learning how to deal with different types of personalities?
Is the time you spend “dating” just preparing you for years with Mr. Right?
Or is dating something we invented because we are really all lost and just trying to co-exist?
Marriage.. Divorce..Friends with benefits..Girlfriend.. Boyfriend..Fiance.. Baby Mama..
Where does it start? More importantly where does it end?..
I halfway write one then its goes nowhere so I delete it.
I’ve been thinking a lot about different kinds of relationships, marriage included && the role that sex plays in those relationships. I’ve also been thinking a lot about the term “soul mate”, what it means and if it’s even possible.
More importantly, these thoughts have forced me to ask myself if I can picture myself with one person for the rest of my life.
One person for the rest of my life? Wow.
Do you believe in having a soul mate? If you do is the person you’re currently dating your soul mate?
If not why are you dating them? That’s what dating is about isn’t it? Sorting through all the Mr./Mrs. Wrong’s to get to Mr./Mrs. Right?
Or is dating more about experience? Is it about finding the qualities you like in another person? Or is it really about you and learning how to deal with different types of personalities?
Is the time you spend “dating” just preparing you for years with Mr. Right?
Or is dating something we invented because we are really all lost and just trying to co-exist?
Marriage.. Divorce..Friends with benefits..Girlfriend.. Boyfriend..Fiance.. Baby Mama..
Where does it start? More importantly where does it end?..
Love at first sighht? Or do you have to develope love?..
Relationships are kind of like education. Even after graduation there is still more to learn. You work at it and you learn. Even after years even decades in an industry people go back to school.
Even after decades in a relationship you have to work at it.. You have to discover new things.
People are constantly evolving in every aspect. Relationships are no different.
Is being single a curse or a blessing?
At times it can be both. I couldn’t be happier right now knowing I’m single but then there’s times when I can’t help but feel like I’m alone, even though I know I'm surrounded by friends and family that love me, it’s not the same.
I’m not afraid of commitment that’s for sure. I am afraid of being stuck in a relationship I don’t want to be in. But how many of us are in relationships we no longer want to be in because it’s convenient? Or because a partner gives us a false sense of security?
Well this blog ended up being way more questions than answers. As soon as I figure any of them out I’ll blog again.
Relationships are kind of like education. Even after graduation there is still more to learn. You work at it and you learn. Even after years even decades in an industry people go back to school.
Even after decades in a relationship you have to work at it.. You have to discover new things.
People are constantly evolving in every aspect. Relationships are no different.
Is being single a curse or a blessing?
At times it can be both. I couldn’t be happier right now knowing I’m single but then there’s times when I can’t help but feel like I’m alone, even though I know I'm surrounded by friends and family that love me, it’s not the same.
I’m not afraid of commitment that’s for sure. I am afraid of being stuck in a relationship I don’t want to be in. But how many of us are in relationships we no longer want to be in because it’s convenient? Or because a partner gives us a false sense of security?
Well this blog ended up being way more questions than answers. As soon as I figure any of them out I’ll blog again.
brandi
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