Do it for you.

Ok so this is kinda on my mind..

I just wanna put it out there that if while having a good time out with friends, maybe at all the holiday/ new years parties that are going on in December, if you get into a fight with your man over something stupid, maybe you just shouldnt be with that man anymore. If its small, so he spills something on your dress, oh well accidents happen, let it gooo. But if you find that when your out at a bar with said "man" and hes actin a jealous fool. Drop his ass pleasse.

If a man is not secure enough to go out with his girl and party with other persons of the male persuation or if he is uncomfortable with you going out and having a goodtime without him.. Hes not worth having.. theres no two ways about that.

If you cant be yourself when you are with someone, why the fuck are you with them?..

Be happy with who you are as a person, anyone should be happy as shit to be around you because you should just glow with happiness. Do whatever you have to do to make yourself happy. Who cares about what everyone else thinks or wants.. As women we are naturally inclined to protect the people we love.. But hey.. sometimes you just gotta do things for you. Do whatever makes you feel good, or makes you feel balanced. If your unhappy you have no one to blame but yourself. If you arent, do something about it! Make a move, control your own life.

We only have one life. Make it worth living, make your life a story you wanna tell your grandkids..

Do not ever regret anything. Before you make any decision, even small ones.. think about how its going to effect you in the future. Short and long term. If you make every decision based on this, you should never regret anything. Every experience you go through in life shapes who you turn out to be, it shapes your morals and opinions. If you look back and theres things you want to change, thats like wanting to change yourself. So .. again this goes back to being happy with who the fuck you are. Be proud of who you are.

"If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best."

-Marilyn Monroe

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